Loyalty. What does it mean to you? I wonder this as I recall this guy recently telling me that he doesn’t think I could I ever be loyal. I can’t lie, the statement triggered me AT FIRST but as I let it marinate I thought “LOYALTY?! IN THIS ECONOMY?” As I look back into my relationships whether platonic or intimate, male or female, loyalty has … Continue reading LOYALTY.

Colorism Bingo

A colorism conversation in the black community goes like a game of Bingo. Every board is different yet contains the same content with the same rhetoric being retorted. I’ll give the conclusion: Colorism is so powerful that there is no division of black people that is completely immune from its effects. What keeps me mum on colorism discussions in social settings is that everything is … Continue reading Colorism Bingo